TTC for the 1st time.. *long post sorry I’m lost!*

So I believe LH surge tests don’t work for me, I purchased first response LH digital test and haven’t gotten a yes+, the previous month before I was TTC I got cramps of what I believe ovulation cramps about 2 days before my period November. I TTC the same time around this past month December and I got my period for about 2 days, when it is normally 4-5. And it came early by 2 days, I have been cramping quite a bit today and what I’m assuming is implantation or a chemical pregnancy. I swear I could feel the egg travelling on and off the past week! Also I was really bloated and constipated a few days ago. I used to go in the morning and now it has switched to at night that I can go! Right when I got my period Jan.3rd, I got a cold, and soon after a herpes breakout.. and a yeast infection. Btw I get yeast infections after fricken yeast infections ( I think it’s from the herpes and hormone imbalance) I haven’t gotten an outbreak in along time! I’m assuming because there is a change in my body that I got one, also every other day I get a little bit nauseous then it goes away. It has been 10DPO (guessing), I am scared to take a test right now and get my hopes up and it being a chemical pregnancy.. but how likely is it even that someone ovulates before their period, then gets their period and then still has pregnancy symptoms!!!? Opinions, past experiences or family members experiences!? It’s driving me crazy I just want a baby! I have planned this all my life; “Get married, have a career, then have a child or two; me and my husband got married after 5 years together this past summer in August, 26 years old and I hope I didn’t screw my chances ➡️ got an abortion at age 17 with my abusive ex bf that gave me this herpes virus 😔 Just want to start a family! 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦