Sex in an apartment setting
I’m sure I’ll get some negative comments but here it is...
I live in an apartment complex with my S/O. We have sex maybe 4-10 times a month, usually more around 5/6. It’s usually on the weekends too as that’s when we both are free and spend time together. We usually get it on early in the morning anywhere from 1 am to 7 am. We like to get kinky and a little wild and he likes it when I’m loud. Since we are in an apartment setting I do try to keep it quiet but there are times when he’s just really hitting it or going hard and I let out some loud moans.
I can never hear my neighbors having sex or when they are on the phone, I can hear them talking sometimes but it’s faint. They have pounded on the wall in the middle of the day when I was on my phone. Also, in our old apartment (same complex) our downstairs neighbors claimed they could hear us but They’d claim we were having sex at times we didn’t. These neighbors were friends with us though so they didn’t complain.
I have an old couple to one side that I doubt can hear anything. Unfortunately, we have someone right on the other side of the wall that our bed is next to. The bed can’t be moved because our room is so small and how the layout is that’s the only place the bed will fit. The people next to the wall and downstairs from us are younger, I don’t know if they are couples or not. I know downstairs has a dog and I can hear it bark at times but we never set it off with our sex.
Since I’ve set the details, here comes the questions. Has anyone been the neighbor of someone where you could hear their sex noises? We were at a crappy apartment a few years ago and we ignored them, we could also hear people using their bathroom at this place... We are in better apartments now. Has anyone been the people to have the loud sex in the apartment setting? Did you ever get complaints? Do you think my neighbors will complain or talk to us if it’s bad? What would my apartment complex do? Do you think they can hear us?
I’m just worried someone might get upset and complain to the apartment complex and I’d be mortified if my complex contacted us and threatened to evict because of hot sex. I can not give up that intimacy with my partner though, I do try and stay as quiet as I can.
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