What if your SO is not giving you the big "O"?

Hey girls, I've been with my man for 3 years. He is not my first but, he is definitely the sweetest guy I ever dated. We are happily in love and currently living together. Everything is amazing except for one department. I feel like my man is boring in bed. He rarely gets me to orgasm during sex. But worst of all, he hates giving head.

My previous boyfriend was a freak. He would eat me out all the time and was not shy to add toys to spice up the sex.

I get the impression that my current man is repulsed by eating pussy. He hates it so much that he never asks for a blow job because he fears I would ask for the favor in return. I try to talk to him about it but, he changes the topic or if he does go down on me (once every birthday), he makes it very obvious that he is miserable - making it impossible for me to enjoy it. I'm at a crossroad in my relationship. He is perfect in every other way. Should I accept it and move on? Or since I'm not getting any younger, am I setting myself up for future breakup and wasting my time for the inevitable?