HELP! MY MOM WON’T LET ME LIVE!

I am 17 currently and will be 18 in August but my mom treats me like my younger sisters!

I am bisexual and have only dated one girl for the past year or so but we broke up last year and now I’m dating my boyfriend whom I’ve had a close friendship with for 3 years. My mom has always been accepting of my sexuality and has never had any problems with it. But she was SOOO happy to hear that I began dating guys again. NOW I’m not so sure..

My mom refuses to take me to his house and will only pick me up. I’m left to pay “friends” for rides to get transportation anywhere. She never had a problem taking me to my girlfriend’s house ALL THE WAY ACROSS TOWN to spend the night. I used to stay at her house for whole week breaks sometimes and my mom wouldn’t question it but now that I have a boyfriend, she expects me to figure it out on my own.

My mom has a boyfriend of her own and she claims that she can’t ever take me anywhere but she’s always ready to hop into her car and drive somewhere with him.

And every time I come from my boyfriend’s house it’s always something! “What were y’all doing?”, “What movies did you watch?”, etc. I understand that’s being a normal parent though.. but THEN SHE KEEPS GOING and it just keeps getting worse!

Tonight her boyfriend was supposed to come get me but he forgot about me, and left me blowing their phones up until somebody FINALLY ANSWERED HOURS LATER! Then she called ME with an attitude wondering why I wasn’t home already!!!

Am I wrong for getting mad? Because I know it can’t be me! My mom is never home anyways because she’s always with her boyfriend, I’m 17 can’t spend any time with mine, and I’ll be 18 soon and she treats me like I’m dumb or something! She asks me crazy questions, blames me for her wrongs, and then acts like I’m not supposed to get mad!

I NEED ADVICE LIKE NOW 💯

(My mom would rather me go out and party till 4 a.m with friends than spend 2-3 hours with my boyfriend. That’s how bad the situation is!)

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