JEALOUS FAMILY??!?!? UPDATE!

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Okay so i need some advice... Let start this out with who these people are.
Seth - my fiance
Chelsea - my fiances sister
Heidi - my fiances mother
Jacob - Chelseas bf
Mary - Jacobs mother
Ashley - Jacobs sister
Ok sooooo when me and my fiance first got together the family approved and loved me. Well i had gotten warned that they love drama. I didn't think much of it til they told everyone that when i was in high school I fucked the baseball team, which is not true at all lol. So I wasn't allowed to say anything to them about that so I just kept my mouth closed, well then they started calling me a bitch all the time and then called me a slut. Mary literally looked at me and said "you were a hoe so you probably have herpes and gave it to seth ew" and I couldnt say anything bc Seth was scared shit would be started with Jacob so I didn't say anything and I've always never had a filter so it was pretty hard. Well then they would always bring up his exes to piss me off all the time, and Seth had admitted to me that when we break up he would tell all of,them about it and seem like the victim so i said greaaaat more shit . Keep in mind I have ALWAYS been respectful towards all of them. And we have had a big fight before about them talking shit about me.. Well this last time we broke up they got in the middle of it and made it worse, Mary messaged me and basically threatened me and said the family doesnt own me and blah blah blah shes 40 years old trying to fight me. Well Seth didn't say shit to her then, and then fast forward a week me and Seth were trying to work on us I get a random text saying im not welcome there anymore and no one likes me anymore im a piece of shit and so on. Well then, I say you need to say something and he doesn't... OF COURSE. he says we dont know who it is for sure. Which they have left enough clues for us to figure it out but he keeps constantly defending them. They are all blocked except Jacob and his littlest sister so they are the only ones who see any of my stuff and I still get messages. So am i wrong for telling Seth its either defend me or im done? I need some advice :(
update : So he finally did something, he defended me and he said when we go down to TN he is gonna say something. thank you everyone

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I say leave him, if he can't defend you from his own family he ain't worth the trouble.

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You are absolutely not wrong. If he’s willing to let his family be assholes to you it’s not gonna work out honestly

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he's not worth this bullshit. none of them are. misery loves company. block them and move on. glad you got to give your piece of mind. what a toxic and exhaustive environment!!

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okay so I'm super confused. what does your fiance's sister's boyfriends mother have to do with anything? Why is she involved and if he wont stick up for you then its not worth it hun. I could see if maybe you did something to them but it sounds like They're all just so bored with their lifes that they have to try and ruin yours. To me it sounds like your fiance is being a pussy and he needs to stick up for you. At the same time, I understand you wanting to be respectful but seriously fuck those people. Dont let anyone treat you like that girl! Good luck!

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If he isn’t willing to stand up for you now, he won’t do it when your married. He either has the balls to call his family out or he doesn’t. Since this isn’t a new thing for you guys, I’d say leave him.

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Stop pussy footing around. Stick up for yourself if your “man” ain’t gonna do it. “we won’t claim it” be like “bitch who asked you to?”

And to your boyfriends sister boyfriends mom I would go all the way tf off. Bitch who tf are you and why do you care so much about my relationship? 70 y/o bitch actin like she still in high school. Gossiping about me like you knew me. Bitch you was rolling around the retirement home when I was in high school. Oooh girl get ghetto

Or ignore them

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okay so update I screenshotted every thing yall said and this was the response.

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It's totally NOT WRONG... How are you spending the rest of your life with a guy that defends his shitty family instead of you? 
It's obvious that it's always family first for some guys but you literally have proof that they are assholes to you for NO reason other that they don't like you. 
I would have a serious conversation with him personally to talk about what side he's on (may sound immature but his family acts like a gang from high school) and if you get to an agreement talk to his family together. 
But, from my perspective, you shouldn't have to deal with his family ever, they won't change even if they think they'll lose him. 
This is so wrong to you... Please update to see what happens. 
You can do this, be strong.

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one they are bullies they are adults but act like the high school kids you see now 2. he's a bowl full of dicks for not defending you look who raised him baby girl let him go you deserve so much more and you shouldn't have to deal with people like that it's not healthy for you

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You are NOT wrong . He should have stuck up for you, and honestly I don’t think I could be with someone whose family treats me this way.

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