Should I just drop it?

Question

There's a guy I've been talking to for a bit and I decided to ask him out because I'd like to start dating and get myself out there. So after I asked him out he said maybe I don't really know what I want right now. I said don't worry I'm not looking for a relationship either but just to meet new people. I feel like he's just a time waster to be honest. Should I just stop talking to him?

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Most guys who don't know what they want but end up in relationships break the girls heart. I would drop it.

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I don't know...

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Update: He messaged me again asking to just have sex I told him to fuck off because I can't be arsed with that

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Why stop after one try. Maybe if he see u trying he’ll realizes it

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Recently coming from a college campus with lots of douchy frat boys, when guys say they don’t know what they want or they’re not looking for a relationship right now, that’s them trying to get into your pants with no commitments without actually saying it. They just want to fuck around without having to get emotional. If you hook up with them, they expect you better not get attached because they already told you they weren’t looking for anything serious or etc. I would just leave it be. If the guy REALLY wanted to go out with you, he would. Save yourself the regret or heartbreak of getting with an emotionally absent or commitment fearing guy.
And if this guy (or any guy) really means what he says about not knowing, still steer clear because you should be with a guy that knows what he’s looking for! Playing guessing games with someone else’s heart isn’t fair.

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From personal experience, if someone isn’t sure what they want, you don’t want to waste any more time trying to be with them. If they aren’t sure they want YOU, you don’t want to waste another second on them.

Should I just drop it?

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