First Gyno Appt to talk about TTC - Really nervous!

My first appointment is in 3 hours and I'm really nervous. I'm due for a pap, which I absolutely hate and can barely tolerate. Plus, I'm worried she's going to tell me I'm too fat for fertility treatments and I need to lose weight first.

I'm turning 35 this year and we've been trying on our own unsuccessfully for the past year and a half. I have PCOS, so who even knows when I ovulate (if at all). I really want to try clomid. I'm 5'1 and weigh 210 lbs, so I'm not even sure it's an option for me.

Does anyone have any advice? Have you been in a similar situation? What did your doc tell you?