husband said no

hi ladies. so I'm a stay at home mom and have 2 kids. no income from my side only husband works. today saw a robe online and asked my husband to buy for me. but he said No I can't buy I don't have money. I'm so disappointed.... always when I need to buy anything I need to ask him 100 times to buy for me. I'm so tired of asking asking asking. plz help, anyone knows how I can make money from home? UPDATE: so some ladies are asking here or telling me go find a job. and thinking that I'm lazy butt, no I'm not lazy butt i really enjoy working coz I'm that type of human that doesn't like to be at home. and reason that I'm not working:. 1 daycare will cost me more $2400 for 2 child. 2 husband doesn't want watch kids so I can go back to work and I have no one to watch the kids. and most of ladies are commenting like if I'm not working then I should live with what I have. I don't agree with that, coz me and my husband are family and should be as a team. and once we made these kids we made them together. I do everything in household ( cleaning his closet, cooking, doing his laundry, his clothes all over the house his shoes all over the house so he is like a child. I'm cleaning after him like a child. zero help from his side with household. I even fix rods, putted together dining table TV stand etc... I think those are man job not women ) and he should provide me with my needs. I don't understand those women that saying he should not buy for me the robe. they think its luxurious. I think a $20 robe is just is a simple necessary thing that we all need in this cold winter days. and sorry for those women that thier man treated them like a shit so they Should work outside and inside I'm not that type of women I want to be treated like a women not like a shit. UPDATE. everyone telling me to encourage family and friends to take car e of my kids. ok answer I don't have family in here only aunt which refused. and I'm not allowed to have friends coz once I make friends. my husband telling me they r bitches they r bad etc... don't go with them. there was a neighbor downstairs she was from Somalia was married and had kids so I thought that would be good for me and my kids to have some social life. u know what he said " don't bring anymore that blacks inside of my house" so this one is only one story I had many of them. and the reason he is not giving me money is, he wants me to feel depended from him. any other questions???? I know I'm in abusive relationship. at the same time he loves me and loves my kids I don't know maybe he is sick or I don't know what's wrong. I'm so confused. right don't have choice as I said my kids goes first that's true I think about them first and also right now I don't have choice coz no family no friends no job I even don't know how to drive( my husband never helped me to give me driving lessons, driving School costs money which I don't have) so now I need to get out of the house and make money for my kids for my license for my car for my rent. any other questions?????