If you feel like you’re unhappy in a relationship but still love the person but they’re happy in the relationship but have discussed all our problems and the decision is all left on you what is the best option to go for?

Question

I’m 18 and Me and my partner have been together for 2 years and since the lose of our child we have just drifted apart and I’m not really happy anymore even though I’m still in love with him I don’t kno what to do he says he wants me to be happy and has left the decision all down to me wether to leave or not

Answer

I lost a child too and we drifted apart but I found a really great community online for people who lost a child and I read so many people doing the same thing and so I told my husband one day I am not going to let this ruin us like so many people did, and told him I needed him to be there for me more. Men and women handle things like that so differently but tell him what you need and give him a chance to do that for you. And you need to do that in return too. Speak up and express what you need

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Losing a baby is very difficult. It’s interesting that you say you’re still in love with him but you’re just not happy... I think maybe some counselling or therapy might help you. For a long time I kept trying to find reasons why I was unhappy... and I could’ve written a list as long as my arm. But in the end I spoke to a professional and we realised together that I was suffering from a culmination of PTSD, depression and anxiety. Our brains try to rationalise our emotions to help us understand them... but sometimes it’s our minds themselves that are the problem, and how we perceive and respond to the world around us. You’ve been through something terrible and traumatic and heartbreaking... to avoid taking any course of action that you may later regret, I’d go and speak to a counsellor first. Someone who’s professional, objective and a complete outsider. Take some time for you and the world will slowly start to make sense again. 😘

If you feel like you’re unhappy in a relationship but still love the person but they’re happy in the relationship but have discussed all our problems and the decision is all left on you what is the best option to go for?

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