Okay so I know some defiance is normal when you have another baby and my other child is 2.5, but I’ve been including her in things, spending special time just with her, I cuddled with her last night before bed and gave her hugs and kisses and bed time was STILL hell on earth. She cried and SCREAMED blood murder for an hour, and then wakes up just now continuing the yelling and wakes me up and my two week old son. I mean seriously does this shit ever get better? It was hard before he was born but has gotten 10 times worse.