What should I do?

I’m literally sitting here crying because I’m so confused this is the first time I’ve actually not known how to handle or go about a situation this deep regarding my relationship.

Me and my boyfriend have been together almost 4 years in April. We moved in together after being together under 2 years but after the lease ended we decided we weren’t being smart and kinda moved on impulse so we moved back in with his parents. It’s been a year and half and i am ready to go! I can’t take it anymore. I loved his family before I moved in but their living habits rub me the wrong way. Their vibes, all you hear is screaming from sun up to sun down between his sister yelling at her kids to wake up every morning to his dad doing cocaine, and when he’s not high he’s yelling at his mom(who’s the sweetest woman ever) calling her a “fat bitch.” This happens every single day. But long story short, I’ve been off work for about 4 months due to a hurricane. My job kept giving us false start dates every month so I didn’t start to look for anything else which he didn’t care about. I just started back Last Tuesday and worked 9 days straight and the only thing on my mind was moving. That’s ALL I TALKED ABOUT. I knew my off day would be Thursday(yesterday) so I kept saying to him we’re gonna go fill out the application. He kept agreeing saying how he was ready to leave too. Literally every day he was texting me the same thing.

So Thursday comes and he tells me that he made plans with his friend and said that he forgot that this was the day. I was pissed but i just brushed it off and didn’t say anything(I’m working on being less argumentive). But the only issue I had with that is is he never went anywhere yesterday and when I asked him what time he was leaving(this was at 4pm) he says “I’m not” and I’m thinking wtf we could’ve got this done today!!!

He then proceeds to go work that night and I texted him asking is he going to have time tomorrow(today) or he is gonna be too busy. He says “I guess” and that’s where I lost it. So we are arguing and I told him if you aren’t up and ready to go by 9:30am I am leaving and proceeds to say he doesn’t care Blah blah.

He texted me at 9am letting me know he didn’t leave work yet. I said “okay” and he says “do you know how long this is going to take” I said “why” then he says “ because I have to pick my friend up from the bus station at 10:15.” The reason that pissed me off so bad is because as long as I’ve been talking about this you give ME a timeline you should’ve told your friend NO or he should’ve chose a different time.

He came home at 9:15 sat on the edge of the bed and said NOTHING to me so I got up got dressed and walked out at 9:30

I’m so pissed I don’t understand why or how he’s doing this. He’s 26 and I’m 22 and it’s like why am I having to force a grown ass man to get up and do something that’s gonna better his future.