nothing.

My husband and I are having a rough time. instead of him leaving, he wants to just stay in the unfinished basement at the house. he says he is not ready to leave the house and kids but is not interested in me. he says we can go to counseling and maybe everything between us will work itself out, but he doesn't want any affection, cant watch tv together or share a bathroom.. Not even sit next to each other at dinner. see my thing is how is this going to help us?? And the kids will be so confused because we are usually an all over each other type couple. I feel like seeing him every day is just going to Make this harder on me :(:( has anyone ever gone through this and able to save your marriage? (the living together but having nothing thing)