I hate my mother in law

I know hate is a strong word but I hate my mother in law, her sister and her parents.

Here’s just one of the many reasons, last July I was pregnant, about 7 weeks but I miscarried July fourth and that day we had to go to my husbands grandparents house to swim and bbq. My doctor gave me strict orders not to swim because infection and blah blah blah. I was very sad that day and everyone knew what had happened. His mother proceeded to claim I was lying about it all. And that I was nothing but sad moping around that day and it was annoying.

It hurt my feeling so much that someone would think I lied about losing my baby. She then got her sister and her parents on the train.

Another thing is that my husbands mom is not a mother figure, she only parties and gets drunk all the time even when she has a younger son to look after. One day my husband was super excited about a big day coming up and he called his mom to express how excited he was, all he got out was “hey Mom guess what!” And she cut him off and proceeded to exclaim how she is excited for going out of town for a part in the weekend.

She had done many other things but that’s just a couple. But I had it when that happened and expressed to her how it upset me in a very responsible matter that she couldn’t listen to my husband about something he was excited about. Then she blew up on me and called me some names and pointed out how I lied about my miscarriage all again. She then got her sister involved and texted me very rudely and even got her mother involved and she said I am tearing their family apart.

I just needed to rant. This all happened last October but recently they have come back in our life and we are seeing them March 24th. I’m not excited. I’m still angry and I honestly wish I could just let things go but I can’t.