What if I married

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What if I married the wrong person?
He’s nothing I always imagined.
He’s hardly anything I wanted.
He annoys me more than he makes me happy.
He makes me mad and hurts me more than he makes me feel loved.
We argue.
I love him but I don’t feel like I love him enough....
I don’t feel like I love him the way a wife should love her Husband..
What if I married the wrong person?!?

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Read the book The Five Love Languages! I signed up for the Audible app and the first book is free and I plan to cancel when my trial is up so they don’t charge my card.

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You don't mention how long you've been married. But regardless, the main thing here is to talk to him. Bring your feelings out in the open. Go to marriage counseling. If all that does not work and he's still not responding then seek help to leave.

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Marriage is more than shallow imagination. Real life problems occur, it's the HEART of the individual that makes difference in success of marriage or not. If our heart is after God, the Lord will help through the struggles. If the heart isn't right, it needs to get with God. God is the only One who can mend and keep together what He wills it to be. God faithful and He is Sovereign.

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There’s no such thing as the “right” or “wrong” person. Unless he’s abusive or cheating on you, you made a covenant with him and that’s for life. I suggest you find a good marriage counsellor who can help you work through the issues in your relationship. You’re feeling unloved, chances are he is too. Try to think of one thing per day that you like about him or are grateful for about him. Text him these things. Act loving towards him and the feelings will follow. Plan romantic dates, start wooing each other again and fall back in love. 
Do you go to a church? If you don’t, try finding one. If you do, go and talk to the pastor and see if there are any resources available to help your marriage.

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Ask yourself why you feel this way. Marriage is hard and you’re not always going to feel happy all the time, you have to work on it. You made a lifelong commitment and covenant with God. 
“What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate” - Mark 10:9
Our culture has become so steeped in replacement instead of repair. It’s easy when things get hard to throw your hands up and quit, the right thing to do is try your best to make your marriage work, go to therapy, communicate with your husband. Don’t let anyone encourage you to divorce him so flippantly when they know nothing about your situation. 
I looked at your profile and you have posted quite a few things about your husband being great and doing nice things for you. Obviously, no one knows your marriage like you do, but instead of people encouraging breaking of these lifelong vows, we should be encouraging you to make the often more difficult decision to stay and work on yourself and your marriage, your husband will follow suit. 
Life is hard, marriage is not always sunshine and butterflies but the harder you work at it the better it will become.

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You are not alone in this feeling. I also wonder this. Everyone’s story is different... hang in there ♥️
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I would suggest praying for your husband at least once a day. and serve him at least once a day as well. read the love languages book by Gary Chapman. Fins out what your husband's love language is and show him that you love him. Is your husband a believer? if not I would begin praying for that daily also. Making sure that you're going to church, reading your bible, and actively involved in church are also necessary to grow. think of it like a triangle with God at the top and you and your husband at the bottom. the closer you grow to God the closer you grow toward one another. and talking with your husband too of course.

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This is my biggest fear..! I want to be completely sure of the person I marry

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Get a divorce, don’t waste your life settling. Why be depressed

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divorce him. a relationship only works if you are great friends, support each other, try to make each other feel valued, and try to meet each others needs. if he is not doing this, and there are more negatives than positives, then do what is best for yourself. it sounds like you feel trapped, disappointed, and very unhappy in your marriage. look up john gottmans relationship research, it may help.

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