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I need to vent idk is it possible that I'm not mentally ready for sex even thought I'm 20 about to be 21? Is that weird I had sex before well I lost my virginity in the age I'm currently at which is 20 & recently and I had sex three time since then & I need someone to talk with when it come to sexually thing cause I'm kinda ignorant to it & my anxiety have me like thinking I have something when I dont maybe I'm not ready for it cause all three time wasn't was the best tbh & I feel bad for myself afterward

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Nothing is wrong with you. Not everyone is ready so young and 20/21 is still really young. You deserve to enjoy sex and share it with someone you love, at the right time.  The feelings you are having should not be happening if you were ready and it is totally okay that you aren't. Trust yourself and stay true to yourself. Don't let anyone pressure you into doing something you are not ready for. You are worth more than that. Your time with come and you'll know when that is. There's no rule or age limit to sex. So do you and my advice, wait for a man you love. Hope this helps and girl, if you need to talk, i'm your age, but I'm here to talk😊 Good luck!

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It’s totally ok and normally for you to not be mentally ready for it yet. Just because you are 20 doesn’t mean you have to be ready. Also, if you are having these feelings, it may have something to do with the men you are sleeping with. If you are with someone you love and trust, you probably won’t have these feelings. Are you in a serious relationship? If not, try waiting until you are with one man for a while. And even then, don’t do it just because he pressures you- make sure he makes you feel safe and secure and it’s because you want to. Then the sex will be MUCH better 😉

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