husbands... ugh

so the hubs and I have been married about 6 months. weren't using birth control as I don't ovulate regularly and hormonal birth control makes me very sick. anyway, we got pregnant a month after we were married, but it ended up being a chemical pregnancy 🙁. since then, all I can think about is how much I want a child! we had originally planned on waiting 3 or 4 years after we got married to start a family. however my feelings have definitely changed. he was still dead set on no babies. so I cried and try to not focus on it. AND NOW... the man doesn't seem to care at all about when I'm ovulating! doesn't ask, just does his thing. and it makes me super excited... but I'm just like "what??????" ... I will never understand men. lol I don't know if I should say something to make sure we're on the same page so if we do get pregnant he isn't mad or if I should bask in the baby dust? lol