Birthdays so close together

Tomorrow I’ll be 39 weeks pregnant. My due date is February 15th.. my daughters birthday is February 12th and her 4th birthday party is February 11th. I used to want my baby to be here ASAP but now I am really scared that he will come on the 10, 11, or 12th and I will be so heartbroken missing her birthday and I feel as if its unfair to her if he were to come on her birthday. 😓 I’m so emotional about this! Has anyone had their babies birthdays so close together??? Need some support here!