SO Goes Through My Phone, But Won’t Let Me Near His?

I’ve been with my husband for 6 years, we’ve been married for almost 2 of those 6 years. And he gets on my phone whenever he wants. I do have a fingerprint lock on my iPhone. But when he wants to see my phone he says, “Babe can I borrow your finger?” And I say, “HERE YOU GO CRAZY!” 😂😂 BUT...... He NEVER lets me on his phone.

EXAMPLE: He wanted to look through my phone about a week ago, because his coworker told him he swore he saw me with another man while my husband was on a mission. (He’s active duty in the army.) BTW, I wasn’t with some other guy, I was grocery shopping and the bagger (who was a 15 year old boy) helped me carry my groceries to my car because I also had our 2 year old son with me. So anyways, I let him look through my phone, and OF COURSE he didn’t find anything. (I’m NO cheater) But then the other day I had asked to check the weather on his phone, because my phone was dead and I was late for an appointment. And he spazzed out and got all defensive saying, “why don’t you trust me?” “Why do you want in my phone?” “I’ll just check the weather for you, I don’t want you invading my privacy”. I told him I didn’t care who checked the weather, that I was just trying to hurry and be nice considering he was showering at that time. I don’t get it. 🤔

Thoughts??