Why dose it only not matter about numbers as long as the person is disease free? People with stds don't deserve love? If you're living this kind of lifestyle you're likely to end up with a few at some point. This doesn't seem fair to just shut them out, I'm sure many people that posted have some themselves. I think this is something we just have to accept if this is the way we choose to live🤷🏽‍♀️