So my boyfriend and I recently got in an argument about him not having a job. I never meant to hurt his feelings, but it’s been awhile since he’s had a job. We plan on moving in together soon, but he doesn’t have a job to even save money, and I’m already looking for second jobs for the summer. I feel like he doesn’t understand what hard work is which really bothers me because I work really hard for the things I want, and I feel like he’s not on the same page. I’ve tried to help him find a job and I’ve tried talking to him. It’s just really hard to move forward when you’re not entirely on the same page.

Long story short, what’s some nicer more comforting ways of talk to him about it? Or Should I stop asking?