While in a relationship men and women can actually be committed both physically and mentally to one person. Believe it or not men can actually find the woman they’re with the only woman attractive to them. My fiancée and i were just talking about this and he said to stop comparing him to other guys. He finds no other woman but me attractive. Believe it or not men are okay too with out having to watch porn look at porn etc. Most Women who want those boundaries set in their relationship are not insecure, crazy, controlling. So how about we shut our mouths and stop judging other women who don’t agree with you!