selfish husband

so yet again my so called husband has been a selfish pig. so it's valentines day and guess what he does buggers off out and take his mate shopping!! earlier today I asked him to take me shopping all I got was a huff buff and a moan so I ended up going on my own. is it to much to ask to cuddle up on the couch have a kiss and a cuddle once the kids are in bed??? clearly it is for him so I messaged his mate telling him exactly that my husband is a married man now and a dad and he can't just message him and apparently when my husband picked him up his mate was scared I mean honestly!!! slowly giving up my husband then moaned at me for messaging his mate so yet again I'm the bad one. really really really needing to get out of this marriage!!!