Do you start sex or your partner? If you do how do you do it?

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So my SO always starts sex and when i do it..i overthink it so much it gets awkward..like it took 45 mintues just to make the decision to give him a bj..Help?😰😰😱

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I'm a fellow overthinker. I'll sit there overwhelmed wanting to just get bent over without him knowing until he does something.

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Unfortunately it's 95 % me and 5 % him. Why do you over think..? lol

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I have a hard time initiating as well, I just get caught up thinking he’s probably not in the mood & i would feel stupid if he didn’t want to have sex.

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I always start with giving him a back massage then when I am really I lightly scratch his back and use move my tongue lightly over his neck and shoulders, I mess with his ears lightly bite and suck on his neck after a few minutes he is ready and he will turn over  I then move my tongue down his stomach and give him head for a little while after a little while he is ready I just do extra to make him feel good lol and I'm the main one starting it up every once in a while he will 😊😊😊😂😂😂😂

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unfortunately it's me who starts it all the time anymore. and I HATE it. but yeah. me.

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I think it gets a little less awkward every time you initiate it. Focus on telling yourself positive things in the moment instead of negative things. Like instead of “oh Man I look horrible from this angle” or “I totally don’t have any rhythm” be like “I know I look hot” or “he loves when I take control” idk sounds dumb but eventually you will stop thinking negatively about yourself!

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He starts with the kissing , I eventually start grabbing , he starts stripping the both of us and then so on a so forth .

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sub and dom relationship he starts it mostly but sometimes the little things I do starts it.

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Since we both live with our parents still we mostly have car sex and we plan it a few days in advance lol. But sometimes he will be fingering me and I'll be like "okay let's fuck now"

Do you start sex or your partner? If you do how do you do it?

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