Give me your thoughts on this.. ???

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Saw this on fb so i decided to do screenshot. To me this is total Bs but hey to each their own but what do you think? 
My reason for me thinking this is no way near out of respect i love and respect my man to the fullest but my kids will always come first no matter what the situation is.! & my husband thinks the same our kids come first!

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A load of shite. Im single but my daughter comes first after me, we are both before any man that might enter or has been part of my life. 
Its a very old fashioned view, in that generation men went out to work and women stayed home. It doesn’t work in modern day society.

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I believe what works for your house hold is what you should do. If you’re married and have the typical “nuclear family” and this is how you choose to run your household that’s fine and if not that’s fine too. I just think it’s insane for people to think there is only one good way to run a household and raise children. I was raised in a home like this where my dad was the head of the house and I agree that it gave me a sort of respect for both of my parents that I didn’t necessarily see in my friends homes but that’s not to say other ways don’t work or don’t work as well. Just do you and do what’s best for your family, the rest will work itself out.

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I believe what the message is saying is , who comes first husband or child. The Bible speaks of the husband as the head of the household, so obviously he would be first.
Ephesians 5:34

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When I was growing up the food went on the table and everyone served themselves except when I was to young to handle utensils. I'm married now but no children. We each serve ourselves and I'm sure when I have kids I'll fix the kids plate simply because they will be to young. After a certain age and hand-tied coordination and not letting your eyes be bigger than your stomach they will fix their own plate. I don't fix my husbands plate, I don't know how much he wants.

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I fix my sons plate first because the food is hot, and let it cool off before giving it to him. While it’s cooling, I serve my husband. When Im juggling too many things, I look him square in the eyes and ask him if his arms work. It’s his queue to serve himself. While I serve everyone, he gets drinks and utensils. It’s called team work. A screaming 2 year old, goes first so that while he eats the adults can talk and enjoy dinner.

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I believe she said that because children are borrowed, your husband is supposed to be with you “for life” so, when your kids are old enough they’ll move out and who would you end up with? Your husband, so he is your real partner for life. That’s how a priest explained it at church 🤔

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