shown off and paragraphs????

do you guys get upset when your s/o doesn't show you off on social media? or send you paragraphs to wake up to? I know relationships aren't based on instagram and facebook and whatever else but isn't it nice without asking for it? or how about waking up to a long message that talks about all his feelings for you? is it just me or do you girls get upset when you dont recieve this stuff too sometimes??