why i fell responsible for my partner's happiness

Question

im trying to emotionally detach from my partner, which recently i need to find myself as im abused sexually,  emotionally nd physically abused by him, trying to do my own, find myself.But why i feel responsible nd guilty if im trying to find myself nd become happy nd cheerful, i feel guilty nd sad that he might be miserable nd sad nd lonely..this makes me feel horrible, guilty..oh gosh

Answer

You feel that way because he has made you venerable... you may or may not have noticed that he has changed your mind to only care and think about him... if you want to go to the shop for some milk because you need breakfast you will most likely text him that you need to go shop, what for, and why, you may even apologise you didn’t think of this and go out to get it when you was with him so he knows where you are.. then you will tell him when you have left.. you will text him on the way and when you leave and when you’re home and probably even when you’re using that milk to pour over your cereal... there are toxic relationships in the world that are acceptable, it’s what makes some couples perfect for eachother because they clash in a way that is perfect for eachother because they are the same person.. but not with physical abuse. It’s a step forward for you to speak on this forum to us for advice or even help.. but now you need to work on getting that strength to build yourself up as your own person and speak to your family and friends as your protectors and security and get out of that relationship. He has grounded you to feel guilty for everything. Never feel guilty for making yourself happy... leave... build yourself up... and do not care for anyone’s happiness but yourself... it only gets worse, trust me on this.. I’m routing for you

Answer

Pretty sure he didn’t feel that way when he was physically and verbally abusing you. Concentrate on yourself. Screw him.

Answer

This is a terrible paragraph but theres are billions of fish in the sea move on this guy sounds like he is bringing you down. Drop his ass

why i fell responsible for my partner's happiness

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