Why do men have to be a-holes at the most inconvenient time?

Don't get me wrong, I love my BF very much. We have been TTC for 8 months now. I am 7 days late with no BFP or even a VFL. I informed him I would be making an appointment soon. He said, and I quote, "You need to relax." All I said was I'll probably be making an appointment soon. It's not his body. If I'm not pregnant I would like to know why AF hasn't shown! I'm never late beyond a day, never. I've had petiod like symptoms, but I've also had pregnancy like symptoms. For me I know which are which. I plan on testing again tomorrow. I tested Tuesday and thought I saw the faintest of lines. Good luck to all you beautiful women. Thanks for listening if you've made it this far in my rant. Baby dust