Wedding or not?

So, I have started planning my wedding but I’m seeing that maybe my fiancé and I are going to spend money that we don’t really have right now. He’s saying it’s fine that we can make it (since it is a small wedding) but looking at our finances we would be tight. We are currently in the process of buying a home and as you all know it is very expensive and time consuming.. so with that I know the wise thing to do is not to have a wedding but I’ve been dreaming of that day since I was a little girl and I’m scared that later on in life I’ll regret not having one. What would y’all do?