Break up or make up advice??

Okay, so my boyfriend of a little over a year decided we should take some time apart to kind of, regroup. We’d been fighting a lot more than not is the whole reason of taking a break in the first place; at this point it’s been probably a little over a month of being “broken up” even though we still talk and are close (hence the quotes around broken up). He keeps telling me that he wants me in his life whether we are together or apart as of now, but he wants to be with me in the long run. Lately he has been being really rude and inconsiderate towards my feelings and emotions, and he blames it on the fact that he doesn’t know if he wants to get back together now or not. In my opinion, I really care about him and truly want him back in my life, but he is still on the fence about everything because we both have super busy lifestyles; which makes sense, I understand that aspect. But now, the only thing he’s doing is playing with my emotions and sending me mixed signals, for example, he tells me he wants me in his life and he loves me, but he can’t answer a single text all day long, follow through when he says he’ll call me, or even agree to go to the movies for a little while or hang out some other way, because he’s supposedly “too busy.” I don’t know if I should continue to wait for him because I genuinely do care about him, even though we are young, or if I should let him go... he is a senior and will be graduating after this school year and going off to college, as I am only a junior and have one more year of high school to go, so if things did turn out bad I wouldn’t have to see him... help!!!

**update**: One of my good friends who I trust 100% told me that another girl, who she happens to be “friends” with, asked him to go to lunch today and the only reason he didn’t go was because he had to make up some school work or else he would’ve... he said he didn’t like her like that and he doesn’t like any other girls as more than friends besides me and that the lunch wouldn’t have meant anything, BUT I’m gonna call bull f*cking sh*t because she obviously asked him out on a date and he would’ve gone. His excuse to me was that “we aren’t together, so why would it matter?”... f*ck that.

We got into a huge argument over it AT SCHOOL, IN FRONT OF EVERYONE. I was bawling and we were yelling; I must’ve looked HORRID. Luckily, a super nice teacher saw the entire thing and got me out of my next class to talk to someone about it. At least God had my back on that one!

Definitely think I’m leaving his a$$ after that one, but there’s still that slight chance he might switch up his d*ckhead habits and start treating me the way I deserve to be treated... long story short, I might leave a slight opening in the door if he’s willing to change and treat me right, because I’m a bad b*tch and I don’t accept anything less.

THANK YOU to all who read this long, long, long story, if you’ve made it this far, I greatly appreciate it. I hope all of you strong, hard working, independent women have a great day because we all deserve it!