My husband doesn’t want to have sex with me/struggles to have sex with me. He blames it all on me and arguments in our marriage. He isn’t impotent, refuses to see a therapist about it, or talk about it other than to blame it all on me. He’s not impotent and doesn’t have any medical conditions/doesn’t take meds that affect his sex drive. He doesn’t have a lot of stress at work or anywhere else in his life. When were arguing, He blames our arguments and my weaknesses in the marriage on his lack of desire, whenever we’re arguing. I’ve seen counselors myself about his issue, but none of the counselors were helpful, well, bc he won’t go. One counselor even suggested it might be bc he might be “gay”! 😤When things are ok, and I bring it up to him, he won’t get to the root cause of his desire problem. He just says .”I don’t know”. He won’t discuss it, He just says “I’m

Sorry I let you down, we’ll do it tomorrow”, but he always changes his mind. No matter how much weight I’ve lost, how hard I work in our marriage, or what job I get, etc., he hasn’t done anything to improve our sex life. It’s 3 months into 2018 and so far we haven’t had sex at all this year. 😢 I’ve tried everything!! Ive tried taking sexual initiative, (when I do, he ALWAYS rejects me), and is uncomfortable telling me his turn ons, sexual desires, etc. he knows he lets me down by not wanting sex but won’t do anything about it. Other than that, he’s a great husband, the kind ANY wife would want. He’s responsible, does chores, takes very good care of me and my needs, knows my likes, gives great massages, etc., etc. The only thing I have to nag him

For is not to do chores, but sex...which is sad. 😢😢

please help! Thx in advance!!