Is this abuse or not?

Basically i think my uncle abused me when I was young but I’m really not sure if what he did would be classed as abuse he’s moved and lives on the other side of the world now but it plays in my mind every day and I just want your opinions to maybe give my mind a break. Basically when I was younger maybe like 7/8 give or take a few years my aunty was a party animal she would go out every single weekend and whenever she went out my uncle would always invite me for sleep overs because he used to say he didn’t like being alone and I was good company but I used to always hate going and beg not to go but as I was young i was always over ruled. When we was there and alone he would always look me up and down and say you look really sexy today. Also every single time I went he had this game we would play I really enjoyed playing at the time but as I got older it started to seem weird I would pretend that I was a lost little school girl trying to find my way home and then he’d run in the room put his hand over my mouth so I couldn’t scream and throw me on the bed and start biting all over my body pretending to be a vampire but it was mostly all over my neck and my stomach and the top of my legs close to my lady parts. When he did this he would always close the curtains and he would never do it when anyone else was there. He also used to tickle me and put his hands down my pants but one of my mums ex boyfriends did this to me a few times before also so I thought that was just normal until I grew older. When I was ready for bed I would head to the spare room but he would always say no come and get in bed with me and we will watch a movie and he would put his arm around me in bed and watch tv. One time I stayed over but my aunty was there aswell so I slept over in the spare room alone but when I woke up he was lied next to me completely naked I was terrified thinking maybe he’d raped me or touched me in my sleep so I went and told my aunty but she just laughed and said he probably couldn’t sleep coz of her snoring so came in here with me and forgot he was naked but I was terrified. Anyway skipping on a few years as I got older I stopped going as much because I just felt uncomfortable going but on the times I did see him he would always ask me questions like am I still a virgin and have I done things with guys yet. Maybe it’s not abuse I don’t know but it makes me uncomfortable and I just want some answers but feel I can’t speak to anyone about it and I’d feel bad accusing someone of abuse if it’s not abuse and I’ve just blown it out of proportion