So I’ve been with my husband for 5 years, as of March 4th. March 29th will be 2 years that we’ve been married. And our sex life is pretty great. We have boring sessions sometimes. But I tend to take breaks from sex with him for a week or so, that way when we do have sex again it’s very intense because we are filled with all these built up hormones.

So after taking a break, we have sex. And I’m the type of wife that’s likes to be submissive during sex. I like my hair yanked hard, I like being choked until I can hardly breathe, I like being lightly slapped in the face and slapped even harder on my ass. I like being held down, I like being bitten and talked dirty to like I have no say in what’s about to happen.

I’ve had a lot of friends tell me I am “not normal” for liking these kinds of things... And they tell me that it’ll “start happening in your everyday lives”... I will say that this behavior NEVER leaves our sex life. It’s ONLY when we have sex. I just wanted to know if I’m the only one who is like this? Is there anyone else out there that gets insanely turned on by these kinds of thing, or am I really “not normal”??