When is enough enough?

Question

When do you decide enough is enough and quit trying (ie. testing, measuring)?  My DH and I have been trying for our first for a year and a half. We saw a fertility specialist and they said that we should start looking into IVF but we can't afford it and our ins doesn't cover it. I was hoping more rigourous checking would help but now I'm ready to just say forget it and quit all of it. And if we get a BFP great. Thoughts?

Answer

Once you give up you will probably get pregnant. I am trying for my 4th kid and I have been trying for almost 2 yrs now. I wanna give up but I remarried a man with no kids and I feel like I have robbed him of something. Everyone has told me just to give up and fertility doc said same to me I needed a ivf and we can't afford it either! So I started recording my bbt and doing preseed but I am not stressing about it now and if it happens it happens. But relax and maybe it will happen!

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My DH and I have been trying for our 2nd for 7 months now. I have pcos so it can be difficult, but my doc wanted me to try using opks... needless to say, they were pointless for me and gave me false info. I think I'm going to stop the testing now, including my poas addiction. We are just going to keep bd ing every other day and see what happens...

When is enough enough?

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