On top? 😴

My boyfriend really likes when I’m on top, well I mean I like it to but it takes a lot for me to really enjoy it. When I first get on top it’s like it hurts which doesn’t make sense cause he always makes sure I’m wet before hand.. how can I enjoy it more ? I like feeling in control just as much as him. but idk how to enjoy it more, & he says I’m good at it you know but how do I make sure 😂 I’ve watched porn and like I don’t do it like those girls. it’s nuts. idk 🙄 opinions ?