I’m pregnant and not sure what to do..

Me and my husband have been together for 5 years and married for 4. We’ve always had a great marriage. We’re super open with one another, we communicate great, etc. I’m not saying we’re perfect or anything like that but our marriage has been a blessing. Before I met my current husband, I was in a very emotionally and physically abusive relationship that left me so terrified of being with anyone else. That all changed when I met my current husband. He’s always been so wonderful to me. We currently work for the same company, I’m just at a different clinic.

I’m currently 14 1/2 weeks pregnant. Right before I got pregnant (we have tried for almost 3 years) I found out he had been snap-chatting with another woman at the clinic. I have no clue what all went on but I was not happy about it. I of course messaged her out of hurt and anger. Her response was she didn’t know where that message came from because she just see’s him as a friend 🙄. Fast forward, it’s been a little rocky but otherwise I forgave him and moved on. It’s been a little rough since being pregnant and my hormones are all out of whack. I kept getting a feeling something else was going on. So this morning I checked his work phone again and there were two nude photos of a woman from back in August (please don’t call me insecure. I have ALWAYS trusted my husband until all of this.) I got really angry and made him tell me who they were from. It was from a different woman at the clinic, who I considered doing our maternity pictures and had even mentioned the idea to my husband! 🤬

So now I’m so torn on what to do. Her and her husband share a Facebook account and she has kids. I’ve wanted to so bad send the message and pictures to their Facebook and ask her why in the hell did she feel comfortable enough to send my husband pictures? And I know he’s to blame as well. I’ve cried all morning. I just lost my step dad a week ago and now all of this, again. I feel like he has made this pregnancy a nightmare. One that we tried so hard for.

I love him but now I can no longer look at him the same. I don’t know that I’ll be able to be intimate with him again because of the unknown. I swore I’d never go through this again. I don’t know if I should file for divorce and move in with my mom, separate for a while or try to work it out. I have another doctor appointment this week and I want him nowhere near me or our daughter in my belly. Please, any advice would be appreciated.