How to activate Responsive Desire

I just finished Emily Nagoski's Come As You Are and honestly it explains so much for me. it finally made me realize that my low libido doesnt mean that I'm broken, just that I have responsive desire, not spontaneous like my husband. That being said the only real way ive found to trigger such desire is through massages and I'm finding difficulty coming up with more (not that I'm complaining about the recent increase of massages mind you 😜).

Does anyone else have a way they trigger their reaponsive desire? Any input is appreciated!