Feeling really behind and have no plans to start...

We have a 13 month old boy and we’re not finding out the gender with this one so we’re not even starting the nursery until after baby is born.. but it’s kind of driving me crazy!!🙈 if we have a girl, I have the whole nursery planned already, but if we have another boy we have a name picked out. So still working on girl name and still working on boy nursery ideas. Haven’t bought any clothes because I’d prefer to wait for baby to be here. I don’t really know what else I’ll need that I don’t already have from first baby. I just feel like I’m not prepared at all and don’t really know what to do to better prepare myself.