Is this abusive ?

Hi. My husband and I are pregnant with our first child 10 weeks only . We just sold our condo (something I have wanted forever) and found a house we love . Last minute we found out we had a lien on our condo building so we didn’t know if the sale would go through for sure. VERY STRESSFUL. We have 5 days to pack a life of 15 years up. My husband promised he would step up bc the stress is unhealthy for me and the baby and I can’t do it all by myself. Well we have two days left and he hasn’t packed one box. He works a lot and promised to come home early each day which is at 6 because normally he’s not home until 8:30-9. Hasn’t happened. I work from home for his company and take care of the entire house and cooking and groceries and will soon our child. He told me today when I mentioned to him that he hasn’t helped at all ... why are you so stressed ? It’s just moving . You do nothing all day so you should do it all. He has mentioned in the past a million times that I do nothing. I’m so tired of hearing it and I think it’s because I work for him and not outside of the house . I see being able to work with him as a huge blessing bc I will continue to be able to work from home and raise my kids. The best of both worlds. He constantly throws it in my face I do nothing and it’s really starting to make me think I’m worthless. I called moving companies all day on Monday and read reviews got quotes just for him to tell me “they are all too expensive “. So he found a cheap place with 1 star reviews and hired them for 3 hours a hourly rate which we have HUGE furniture that has to be taken down and a 2 bedroom condo on the 9th floor. They have to park outside of our building and bring all the furniture to the road to load in the truck ! 3 hours ? I think not . Anyway this has been a trend he says I don’t do anything but when I try it’s not good enough or cheap enough. People can say oh just write a check . I would NEVER hear the end of it of how I spent too much money and got ripped off . I feel like I will be living my life where I can’t even hire someone to keep up the landscaping or pest control bc I will be harassed about spending too much money. I do what I can myself but I’m not a professional in these things and I’m pregnant so I can’t exactly be on a latter painting and priming a whole living room. When he says I don’t know why you are stressed . I really feel like he is saying your an idiot and do nothing all day so you can deal it all. But when I do try to deal with things it’s always wrong. This should be such a happy time for me but he’s ruined it. He told me that he thinks we offered to much on the house and now he regrets it and thinks we were taken and will never make our money back . It’s always something .