My sex drive totally disappeared after I had my son but now 7 long months later it’s finally back with a vengeance! My husband has been amazing and patient but I can tell he is getting more and more frustrated. I want to surprise him with a steamy night in but I feel totally out of practice and a little awkward.

He’s mentioned in the past that he’d really enjoy if I took control a bit more so I want to give him an amazing night but feel a little self conscious, especially after having the baby, and I don’t want to make a fool of myself by trying to take the lead without really knowing what I’m doing.

Any tips?