Help! Please!

I had to take my 4 year old to get a cavity filled today. It started out great! She let them numb her mouth with no problems, she sat great for drilling, then she refused to let them fill it...she started freaking out, saying I can’t handle it, jumping around and flailing. The dentist was not happy. They gave her 3 chances, over an hour, to let them finish. Then they kicked her out. They wouldn’t Finish. I broke down in the car, she’s acting like nothing happened. Now she has a hole in her tooth and idk what to do!! They recommended a pediatric dentist, but idk if I can get her in today! Help please!? Advice!? Anything. I am a mess!!!