12dpo question. Possible TMI.

I'm having slight cramps, creamy cm, I had a small bit of spotting 9&10dpo, nausea, and my cervix is closed and not hard, but not soft either.
I tested today and yesterday and got BFN.
Also, DH says that it feels different when we have sex. He said it feels tighter.
AF is due in 2 days.
Does any of this sound promising?
Or does it sound like AF?