I’m an only child, I have a son who’s turning two in May and I’m due to deliver his little sister in four weeks. These are my parents’ only grandchildren so naturally they want to see my son and they will want to see my daughter when she arrives. I’m completely ok with that...just not as their house. Since my son was born I have taken him to see them every week so they build a relationship, but as he grows, it’s becoming more obvious how clustered their house is. Every room is jam packed with stuff and I don’t expect them to baby proof really but they know when we’re coming and I feel like all I do the whole time is chase my son and take things away from him or help him up because he’s tripping over stuff. It’s incredibly uncomfortable to be there for holidays and they just seem oblivious to it all. My fiancé and I have a much larger house, there are very few things my son can’t play with and again, I’m closing in on having another baby. I feel like they should come to our house to visit so my child(ren), fiancé and I have room to move. Is it rude of me to ask them to come here?