did i go too far? *UPDATED

little backstory (sorry it's long) : we are currently expecting #1 together (not sure how far along) he has a step son who is almost 3. we have agreed that i will stay home as long as possible once i have baby. i agreed that since hed be the one working and bringing in money, id take care of all household chores that need to be done. when im a sahm.

he worked doing snow removal this winter. it snowed a handful of times so he worked 2 hours each morning to check his sites, then was home on his computer games the rest of the day. if he cleaned any part of the house, hed use that as an excuse not to do anything else for weeks! "i just cleaned the entire top floor! ( living room and kitchen)" yea dude that was 2 weeks ago. but thanks?

today i come home with his almost 3 year old son, expecting to be able to make dinner as i figured he would have finally done the dishes like ive asked 3 times this week. and i come home to nothing being touched. he didnt work until 1pm, he works as a hairdresser and a pizza delivery driver right now, both relatively easy jobs when it comes to the physical aspect. i clean houses. carrying heavy supplies, srubbing people's bathrooms and kitchens, and busting my ass. i have a curved spine, so my back is always in some amount of pain. plus all the aches and pains that come with early pregnancy.

we agreed last night that hed wake up early enough and do the dishes. he woke up 40 mins before he had to leave. he didnt get home last night till 130 am cause at 11pm he met with his cousin about a new job, which took maybe 20 mins of talking, then fucked around for 2 hours. so he slept in. so i exploded via text. its legit what ive been thinking for 6 months, i guess all the extra hormones finally made it impossible to hold back anymore.

tell me if i sound absolutely crazy.

UPDATE: as you can see i stopped replying before i lost it some more, gave both of us some time to think. and i think i actually got thru to him. we'll see if anything changes. i dont want a completely different man, id just appreciate a little help more often when it comes to the home we share together.