How would you feel?

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As being a teen mom. If a fellow young mom approaches you telling you that she was carrying your sons child. How would you react? I have a young lady who approached me telling me she is carrying my do seed. My son is not denying or acknowledging. She recently texted me saying the baby is here and my son is refusing a DNA test, she asked if I’d take a grandparents dna test and I don’t wanna betray my son, what should I do?
**edit for more details, she is 21 he is 23**
*more edit baby is one month old, she says my son wants nothing to do with her or the baby, baby has the same last name as me. I feel so bad :( . He’s my son I don’t wanna hurt him*

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Take the test. Your son is a teenager who may have gotten another teen pregnant. You owe it to your son, this girl and this baby to step up and be a parent and do the right thing. If your son is the father he needs to man up and deal with it. You are allowing him to act like a child. He can't deny dna and if its his child he will have to take responsibility someday wether it's parental or financial. If it's not his baby it's done then and there. Be an adult Jesus.

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To your edit it of the age that sounds even worse lol. He needs to man up and do the right thing and if he won't then you should. How is it even a question.

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Covering for him is going to teach him it’s okay to be a dickhead.
Do the right thing, take the test or get him to take the test. 
How would you feel if you were that young lady?

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You're not there to be besties with your son, isn't your role to show him what's right and wrong?

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I agree with you that you shouldn’t go behind his back.
I would talk to your son first and tell him how strongly you feel about his responsibilities towards his offspring and yours.
Tell him that if it his is baby, the whole family is going to step up.  So he feels supported.  
Tell him he has a period of time (1 month, 2) to come to a decision about what he is going to do.  That you are hoping and praying that you raised the kind of man who does the right thing.

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Absolutely take the test, always put the needs of the baby before anyone's feelings. And if the baby is your sons, you better kick his ass into gear and make him love and support that baby 😅 good luck!

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Your son is being real asshole. That baby could very well be your grandchild and you’d rather abandon it because it might make your son mad to acknowledge the fact that he might have a kid. 
What is wrong with people?!

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do the test because finding out is better than putting your fingers in your ears and ignoring it. it could be negative and nothing come out of it. however if its positive then your son is a dead beat

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feel like he doesn't wanna take it only because of child support. they're both adults and need to act as such.

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You need to do the right thing. The baby is 1 month old and deserves to know who the father is in the future. Your son is not a teenager, he’s an adult in his 20s. Your son needs to take responsibility for his actions and step up. Why would you stand by and allow him to deprive an innocent child the right to know who their father is? Don’t be part of the problem

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