Prepping for the army...🇺🇸🌎💪

I know I have to lose 60 pounds before I officially decide but I'm thinking about it like seriously deciding... I have lost 10.4 pounds so far and I'm so proud but I'm nowhere near where I need to be I eat vegetarian and restrict my carb intake and I workout from home and drink a ton of water... I know the risks of joining my husband on the other hand is saying absolutely not that I should just be a stay at home mom/wife but I want more even if I don't decide that I'm using it as hardcore motivation.... Please any advice would be appreciated but be nice not that it matters but I'm 20 and my husband is 29