My biggest fear

I’m literally TERRIFIED I won’t know when labor starts. With my first, I woke up at 10 am, felt contractions (didn’t know they were), called my mom because I was living with her, told her I didn’t feel good, took a shower, an hour later she came and got me, by then I knew I was in labor. When I got to the hospital, my contractions were 2-3 minutes apart and I was 6 cm dilated 😂 I had NO idea, just thought it was regular pains. My water never broke or anything. No signs beforehand. Now I’m scared it’s going to happen again, and I’ve read the second baby comes faster! UGH.