Tired of hearing this

I just ended a relationship recently and he told me I was too emotional. My last serious boyfriend also told me that.

I’m tired of hearing that from boys. I went through a lot of high school not showing any emotions and crying myself to sleep. So when I got help for my depression and went to therapy I was told to feel my emotions and not be afraid to cry or get angry. But now I’m being told to stop doing that because it’s annoying.

Why are emotions so wrong all of a sudden?