S.O types

So I think I finally figured out the type of guy I’m usually drawn to as far as relationships go. And my friends are all concerned. I thought I was just always attracted to guys in the military but my new SO shakes that theory and enforces a new one. I think I lean more towards guys with are have a bit of a sociopathic tendency or some other type of personality disorder. Thoughts? Their reactions make me feel like I can’t talk to them about him and honestly, I think we get along well and I feel like my intelligence is being tested and strengthened with him. My mind isn’t bored anymore