Got caught...

So I am 26, finally experienced my first orgasm with the shower head a couple months ago. I am married and have been with him and him alone. I didn’t know if I had ever orgasm’d before or not. Until I did with the shower head. I never wanted to hurt his feelings so I never told him. But then one day he caught me in the shower. And was super upset with me. Like I really hurt him and that was not my intention at all. Then we had sex last night and he definitely tried to get me off and I just couldn’t. Everyone is telling me to get the magic wand and try it with him. I hope this works bc now i feel bad when he can’t get me off, but the shower can 😬😬😮😮