How long did you wait?

I have had two early miscarriages one only 6 days after my period and the other yesterday at 9 days after my period so both around 5 weeks.

My doctor suggested waiting 2 cycles when at first I was angry because a lot of people have their rainbow baby the next cycle but now I'm thinking my body does need the time to relax. What would you do? I know it's my choice and also that I should listen to my doctor but she's never done an ultrasound she's just going off of what she is telling everyone.